Webinars
Inside Out: Self Reflection for Conflict Professionals (Webinar)
ONLINEGary Friedman and Norman Fischer talk in this live webinar about how conflict professionals can use self reflection to help their clients.
Taking the Plunge – How to Bring the Understanding Based Model into Your Work (Webinar)
ONLINEIn this one hour live webinar, Catherine Conner will talk about how to use the Understanding Based model in different ways when working with people in conflict and how to build a professional practice that reflects your aspirations.
What to Do When You Are Stuck (Webinar)
ONLINEIn this one hour webinar, Katherine Miller talks about some things to do to avoid getting so stuck it feels unmovable and what to do if you get there.
CUC Connect Premium and VIP Members Only Open Forum
ONLINEThis CUC Connect Member Only webinar session is the opportunity for CUC Connect Premium and VIP members to ask questions, share quandaries and get personal support from CUC instructors. Free for CUC Connect Premium and VIP Members, but registration is required.
4 Things to Do When Emotions Flare (Webinar)
ONLINEThis one-hour long webinar will offer tips and tools to help you maneuver through conflict situations when emotions are high.
Developing and Framing Interests (Webinar)
ONLINEFor decades we have known that interest-based negotiation is more effective and efficient than competitive negotiation. The challenge is in eliciting what is most important to parties and then anchoring the discussion around those interests. In this one hour webinar, Katherine Miller discusses how to use interests to create a ground of understanding that can truly support the end game.
CUC Connect Premium Member Only Open Forum
ONLINEThis CUC Connect Premium Member Only webinar session is the opportunity for CUC Connect Premium members ask questions, share quandaries and get personal support from CUC instructors. Free for CUC Connect Premium Members, but registration is required.
Why Bringing People Together in Conflict Works (Recorded Webinar)
ONLINEIn this encore presentation of the August 23, 2016 webinar on Why Bringing People Together in Conflict Works, Gary Friedman and Katherine Miller talk about why the understanding model of mediation with no-caucus works so well to help people go through conflict rather than simply communicate through intermediaries to get them to an agreement.
3 Mistakes Lawyers Make that Keep Them and Their Clients in Conflict (Recorded Webinar)
ONLINEIn this one hour webinar, Katherine Miller discusses what might you be missing and what can you do differently that will enable you to help your clients solve their problems and bring you greater job satisfaction.
Positive Neutrality (Webinar)
ONLINEIn this webinar, Gary Friedman and Catherine Conner will discuss positive neutrality, moving towards each party to strengthen the mediator's connection to and understanding of each party.
Brainstorming and Evaluating Options (Webinar)
ONLINEIn this one hour webinar, Katherine Miller discusses techniques for brainstorming and then evaluating options that keep parties working together toward a resolution that truly works for all.
CUC Connect Premium Member Only Open Forum
ONLINEThis CUC Connect Premium Member Only webinar session is the opportunity for CUC Connect Premium members to ask questions, share quandaries and get personal support from CUC instructors. Free for CUC Connect Premium Members, but registration is required.
The 6 Underlying Concepts
ONLINECatherine Conner and Katherine Miller discuss the 6 Underlying Concepts of the Understanding-Based model in this webinar.
Judgments and Curiosity
ONLINEGary Friedman and Catherine Conner discuss judgments and turning them into curiousity to help advance the conflict resolution process.
CUC Connect Premium and VIP Member Only Open Forum
ONLINEThis CUC Connect Premium and VIP Only webinar session is the opportunity for CUC Connect Premium and VIP members to ask questions, share quandaries and get personal support from CUC instructors. Free for CUC Connect Premium and VIP Members, but registration is recommended to receive email reminders. What: Member Only Open Forum Date: Tuesday March […]
Why Bring in the Law and How
ONLINEIn this webinar, Katherine Miller will discuss why and how to bring law into the room.
Conflict through Race and Culture Lenses
ONLINEIn this webinar, we focus on race and culture in conflict.
CUC Connect Premium and VIP Member Only Open Forum
ONLINEThis CUC Connect Premium and VIP Only webinar session is the opportunity for CUC Connect Premium and VIP members to ask questions, share quandaries and get personal support from CUC instructors. Free for CUC Connect Premium and VIP Members, but registration is recommended to receive email reminders. What: Member Only Open Forum Date: June 13, […]
Working in the Same Room and Dealing with a Request for Caucus
ONLINEIn this webinar, we discuss working in the same room and how to deal with requests for private meetings.
Gender and Conflict
ONLINEIn this webinar, Catherine Conner and Gary Friedman discuss the role of the conflict professional in bringing awareness to the effect of gender and addressing dynamics that are related to the gender of the people in the room.
CUC Connect Premium and VIP Member Only Open Forum
ONLINEThis CUC Connect Premium and VIP Only webinar session is the opportunity for CUC Connect Premium and VIP members to ask questions, share quandaries and get personal support from CUC instructors. Free for CUC Connect Premium and VIP Members, but registration is recommended to receive email reminders. What: Member Only Open Forum Date: September 19, […]
The End Game – How to Move To An Agreement
ONLINEIn this webinar, Gary Friedman and Katherine Miller discuss the process of moving to an agreement, including looking at the readiness of the parties, how to create and work with packages, and the dynamics that can flare up.
Conflict Styles and Patterns
ONLINEIn this webinar, Gary Friedman and Katherine Miller will describe the types of patterns that are commonly found in conflict and how to work with the patterns to help people approach their conflict in a new way.
CUC Connect Premium and VIP Member Only Open Forum
ONLINEThis CUC Connect Premium and VIP Member Only webinar session is the opportunity for CUC Connect Premium and VIP members to ask questions, share quandaries and get personal support from CUC instructors. Free for CUC Connect Premium and VIP Members, but registration is recommended to receive email reminders. What: Member Only Open Forum Date: Thursday […]
The Business Side of Mediation (Webinar)
You have taken a mediation training and want to add mediation to your existing practice or want to start a new mediation practice, but what about the business side of mediation? In this webinar, Catherine Conner will discuss the following and more: How to create an engaging first impression Staffing (or not) An inviting physical […]
Nine Practices to Change Your Awareness and Presence (Webinar)
One of the challenging but critical skills of a conflict professional is the ability to be fully present and aware in the midst of conflict. Do you find yourself distracted by judgments, drawn to push parties to what seems to be the best solution, or reacting when triggered by someone’s behavior? In this webinar, Gary […]
CUC Connect Premium and VIP Members Only Open Forum
This CUC Connect Premium and VIP Member Only webinar session is the opportunity for CUC Connect Premium and VIP members to ask questions, share quandaries and get personal support from CUC instructors. Free for CUC Connect Premium and VIP Members. What: Member Only Open Forum Date: Tuesday March 12, 2018 When: 11 am Pacific, 12 […]
Ground Rules: How to Reach Agreements on Process (Webinar)
One of the initial tasks in starting a mediation or other conflict engagement process is to determine how the conflict professional(s) and parties are going to work together. Some conflict professionals have their standard set of ground rules and procedures that are presented to the parties for them to follow. Our approach is to reach […]
Culture and Conflict Engagement (Webinar)
ONLINENatalia Lopez-Whitaker, Lacey Wilson and Catherine Conner discuss the impact of culture on conflict engagement.
CUC Connect Premium and VIP Members Only Open Forum
This CUC Connect Premium and VIP Member Only webinar session is the opportunity for CUC Connect Premium and VIP members to ask questions, share quandaries and get personal support from CUC instructors. Free for CUC Connect Premium and VIP Members. What: Member Only Open Forum Date: Wednesday June 12, 2018 When: 11 am Pacific, 12 […]
Going Down the Why Trail (Webinar)
Parties in a conflict are often focused on their positions – what they think should be the solution. Our hope is that by understanding what is beneath their positions, we will be able to help them reach an agreement. In this webinar, Katherine Miller and Gary Friedman will discuss how to work with parties to discover and surface what is important to each of them – why they are taking their positions.
When Lawyers Are in the Room (Webinar)
When parties in a legal dispute decide to use an alternative dispute resolution process, the question of role of the law and lawyers arises. The lawyers may be in the background as consulting lawyers or may be active participants. In this webinar, Gary Friedman and Catherine Conner will discuss what happens when the lawyers are active participants and present at meetings. Topics include reaching agreements about the role of the lawyers and how the law is presented.
CUC Connect Premium and VIP Members Only Open Forum (Webinar)
This CUC Connect Premium and VIP Member Only webinar session is the opportunity for CUC Connect Premium and VIP members to ask questions, share quandaries and get personal support from CUC instructors. Free for CUC Connect Premium and VIP Members.
Preparing Parties for Mediation (Webinar)
ONLINEMany mediation parties have never been in mediation and are anxious about what to expect. Others may have attended a mediation that is quite different from your approach. In this webinar, Catherine Conner and Katherine Miller will discuss best practices for mediators and lawyers to prepare parties for mediation.
Risky Moves: What to Do When You Don’t Know What to Do (Webinar)
ONLINETension is high in the room, emotions are flaring, and you feel desperate. You have tried your usual approach and tools but nothing has shifted. In this webinar, Gary Friedman and Katherine Miller will discuss what you can do when you are stuck.
CUC Connect Premium and VIP Members Only Open Forum
ONLINEThis CUC Connect Premium and VIP Member Only webinar session is the opportunity for CUC Connect Premium and VIP members to ask questions, share quandaries and get personal support from CUC instructors. Free for CUC Connect Premium and VIP Members.
Mediator Advice: Is It Ever Appropriate? (Webinar)
Gary Friedman and Catherine Conner will investigate the question of whether mediators should ever give advice and if so, under what conditions.
Structuring the Process: Why it’s Important and How to Do it Effectively (Webinar)
ONLINEStructuring the process is how we propose starting almost all elements of the Understanding-Based mediation process.
CUC Connect Premium and VIP members only Open Forum (Webinar)
ONLINEThis CUC Connect Premium and VIP Member Only webinar session is the opportunity for CUC Connect Premium and VIP members to ask questions, share quandaries and get personal support from CUC instructors. Free for CUC Connect Premium and VIP Members. What: Member Only Open Forum Date: Friday March 20, 2020 When: 12 noon Pacific, 1 […]
Real Talk (Webinar)
ONLINEIn our Real Talk program, we come together in conversation to create safe, effective spaces to have a dialogue about race and build relationships in the process. During this webinar, members of our Real Talk team will provide context on how and why we initiated these reflective, challenging conversations. We’ll also explore our challenges and […]
Endgame Questions & Issues (Webinar)
Creating and Claiming Value, BATNA and WATNA, Red Herrings, Second Thoughts, and Waffling 12:00 - 1:00 PM Pacific / 3:00 - 4:00 PM Eastern / 9:00 - 10:00 PM Central Europe The endgame is often overshadowing any negotiation process from the outset. As parties in conflict approach the finish line, tentative agreements can fall apart, […]
CUC Connect Premium and VIP members only Open Forum (Webinar)
ONLINEThis CUC Connect Premium and VIP Member Only webinar session is the opportunity for CUC Connect Premium and VIP members to ask questions, share quandaries and get personal support from CUC instructors. Free for CUC Connect Premium and VIP Members. What: Member Only Open Forum Date: Wednesday June 17, 2020 When: 12 noon Pacific, 1 […]
Dealing with External Forces (Webinar)
ONLINEBack-seat Drivers, Tribe, Adversarial Consulting Attorneys, and More In the Understanding-based model, the parties in conflict ultimately know which solution will work best, with the mediator playing a supportive role. Too often, however, external forces, such as family members full of opinions of what should be done, adversarial consulting attorneys who are lacking the necessary […]
Emotions (Webinar)
ONLINEEmotions Versus Rationality • When Emotions Boil Over • No Apparent Emotions Many conflict professionals are compelled to present rationale arguments and strive to avoid too much emotion from permeating into the conflict resolution process. Yet, emotions are a necessary part of decision making, and often are the key to helping clients reach resolution by allowing them […]
CUC Connect Premium and VIP members only Open Forum (Webinar)
ONLINEThis CUC Connect Premium and VIP Member Only webinar session is the opportunity for CUC Connect Premium and VIP members to ask questions, share quandaries and get personal support from CUC instructors. Free for CUC Connect Premium and VIP Members. What: Member Only Open Forum Date: Friday September 18, 2020 When: 12 noon Pacific, 1 […]
The “Bully” (Webinar)
ONLINEOne of the disconcerting challenges in mediation is forceful participants and bullying behavior, which often lead to a failure in the mediation process. Sometimes individuals with active or competitive personalities […]
Parties Understanding Each Other (Webinar)
ONLINEFor mediators, it is a dream to get parties in conflict to appreciate each other in ways they have not done so before. When this process, particularly popular among new […]
CUC Connect Premium and VIP members only Open Forum (Webinar)
ONLINEThis CUC Connect Premium and VIP Member Only webinar session is the opportunity for CUC Connect Premium and VIP members to ask questions, share quandaries and get personal support from […]
Being Yourself in the Room
OnlineDateJanuary 25, 2021 Time 12 PM PST • 3 PM EST • 9 PM CET Cost $47 All webinars are free for CUC Connect members. Click here to learn more. In this webinar we will discuss why being yourself and being comfortable with that is so powerful. We will also discuss some common misconceptions, misgivings and mistakes […]
Trauma and Conflict
Trauma’s reach is visible and invisible, transitory and ever present, and powerful. Parties in a conflict may have trauma from childhood, from their current lives, and from the conflict itself. In this webinar, we will look at sources of trauma, the impact on parties in conflict and the conflict professional, and what that means for […]
CUC Connect Open Forum – VIP and Premium Members Only
OnlineThis open session, exclusively for CUC Connect Premium and VIP members, is the opportunity to ask questions, share quandaries and get personal support from CUC instructors. Date March 18, 2021 Time 12 PM PDT • 3 PM EDT • 8 PM CET Cost Free for CUC Connect VIP and Premium members. Click here to learn […]
Working with Lawyers in the Room
OnlineIn this webinar we will be demonstrating how to work with lawyers and clients together in the same room. Themes that will be included will be contracting with lawyers about their roles, clarifying how to have conversations about the law that will be constructive for the process, how lawyers can participate in deepening their client's […]
Being an Anti-Racist Conflict Professional
OnlineThe lenses of race, equity and culture have opened widely in the last year. Along with many other people, conflict professionals have turned to books, podcasts, documentaries, workshops and other means of learning about the systemic injustices built into American society, governance, and culture. In this webinar, we will take the next step of closely […]
CUC Connect Open Forum – VIP and Premium Members Only
OnlineThis open session, exclusively for CUC Connect Premium and VIP members, is the opportunity to ask questions, share quandaries and get personal support from CUC instructors. Date June 14, 2021 […]
Looping
OnlineDate July 12, 2021 Time 12 PM PDT • 3 PM EDT • 9 PM CEST Cost $47 All webinars are free for CUC Connect members. Click here to learn more. […]
Intimate Partner Violence and Consensual Dispute Resolution
OnlineA recording of this webinar is available for purchase in our store. Domestic violence (DV) is prevalent and gendered. It is a pattern of power and control over a […]
CUC Connect Open Forum – VIP and Premium Members Only
This open session, exclusively for CUC Connect Premium and VIP members, is the opportunity to ask questions, share quandaries and get personal support from CUC instructors. Date September 24, 2021 […]
I Knew What Would Happen
OnlineHumans like to create and tell stories. When a conflict arises, the parties craft their individual stories about what has already happened and what they expect will lead to the […]
Inside Out: The Relationship Between Inner and Outer
OnlineIn this webinar we will focus on practices for accessing self during periods of conflict, dealing with discomfort, identifying and working with bias toward parties. Outcomes for participating in this […]
CUC Connect Open Forum – VIP and Premium Members Only
OnlineThis open session, exclusively for CUC Connect Premium and VIP members, is the opportunity to ask questions, share quandaries and get personal support from CUC instructors. Date December 14, 2021 […]
Neutrality and Objectivity
Date January 10, 2022 Time 12 PM PST • 3 PM EST • 9 PM CET Cost $47 All webinars are free for CUC Connect members. Click here to learn more. […]
Top Tips for Starting an ADR Practice
Date February 15, 2022 Time 12 PM PST • 3 PM EST • 9 PM CET Cost $47 All webinars are free for CUC Connect members. Click here to learn more. […]
Virtual Mediation Revisited: What have we learned over the last two years of doing mediation online?
Date March 17, 2022 Time 12 PM PDT • 3 PM EDT • 8 PM CET Cost $47 All webinars are free for CUC Connect members. Click here to learn more. […]
Power: Understanding or Coercion?
Date April 12, 2022 Time 10 AM PDT • 1 PM EDT • 7 PM CEST Cost $47 All webinars are free for CUC Connect members. Click here to learn more. […]
Lies and the Lying Liars Who Tell Them
OnlineDate May 10, 2022 Time 12 PM PDT • 3 PM EDT • 9 PM CEST Cost $47 All webinars are free for CUC Connect members. Click here to learn more. […]
Disability Inclusion and Accessibility in Conflict Resolution
Date June 2, 2022 Time 12 PM PDT • 3 PM EDT • 9 PM CEST Cost $47 All webinars are free for CUC Connect members. Click here to learn more. […]
Interfering Influencers—What to Do About Them?
Zoom webinarDate July 11, 2022 Time 12 PM PDT • 3 PM EDT • 9 PM CEST Cost $47 All webinars are free for CUC Connect members. Click here to learn more. […]
How Can Contracting Take a Whole Session?
Date August 15, 2022 Time 12 PM PDT • 3 PM EDT • 9 PM CEST Cost $47 All webinars are free for CUC Connect members. Click here to learn more. […]
Finding Value in Conflict: Navigating Workplace Mediation
Join us for a stimulating and informative roundtable discussion featuring industry leader insights from three of the world's most advanced technology firms: Intel, Roche, and SAP. Panelists will discuss […]
Interest-Based Negotiation: Exploring Interests to Identify Opportunities for Compromise
Zoom webinarInterest-based negotiation is at the heart of leveraging the Understanding-Based Model to help those in conflict reach a mutually beneficial outcome. However, guiding people to look beyond their positions […]
Climate of Conflict: Common Ground to Constructive Conversation in an Increasingly Divided World
Zoom webinarIt is natural to surround ourselves with like-minded people while avoiding the discomfort and tension that comes when we engage with those with beliefs and opinions contrary to ours. […]
Internal Experience: Understanding Ourselves to Authentically Connect Clients to Each Other
Zoom webinarUsing our inner experience in the presence of conflict and unblocking ourselves from parties can open channels of communication that help parties understand their problem at a deeper level. […]
Starting at Sorry: Apology to Accountability on the Path of Forgiveness
Zoom webinarForgiveness can be a powerful force for restoring harmony and wholeness. A harmed person can find their freedom in practicing forgiveness. It can also empower them to move toward an […]
Spirit of Collaboration: Starting and Managing a Peer Group
ONLINEIn this interactive webinar, Gary Friedman and Kim Gordon will discuss the value and benefits of starting a peer group for mediators and ADR practitioners. Drawing from decades of experience […]
Power Imbalance: The Power of Personality and Patterns
ONLINEEvery individual who walks into a conflict resolution process brings their style, quirks and ways of relating to others. In pairs or groups, unique patterns of interaction develop. How can […]
Power Imbalance: The Power of Possessing
ONLINEResources come in many forms, not just material possessions. In a conflict, the party with more knowledge, time, money, social capital, or something else can wield outsized control and power […]
Power Imbalance: The Power of Position
ONLINEIn every situation, we exist in relationship to others. The groups we all belong to - and our membership and place within them - impact interactions, expectations of each other, […]
Power Imbalance: Putting it all Together
ONLINEPower imbalances can skew the entire conflict resolution process in innumerable ways. During the Power Imbalance webinar series, we’ve looked closely at three different kinds of power imbalances: interpersonal styles, […]
Why We Don’t Tell People What to Do
ONLINEExplore why understanding-based mediators refrain from telling people what to do and uncover the transformative potential of giving the power to the parties, using non-directive techniques rather than imposing […]
Conflict Resolution Through Workplace Mediation
ONLINEExplore the transformative impact of integrating conflict resolution and mediation practices within your organization while fostering a culture of open communication, looping, and collaborative problem-solving to enhance employee morale, increase […]
Organizational Response: Avoid Exacerbating Conflict
ONLINEDelve into the critical importance of organizations adopting a measured and informed approach to conflict resolution, shed light on the detrimental consequences of mishandling conflicts, and highlight the value of […]
Creative Uses of the Understanding-Based Model
ONLINELearn about the many possibilities for conflict resolution and mediation practitioners to integrate the understanding-based approach into existing practices, kick-start new careers, and assist diverse sectors of society while fostering […]
Shifting Focus: All About Interests
ONLINEHelp people to move beyond their fixed positions by coaching them to explore and describe what really matters — their underlying interests — in order to unlock creative and mutually […]
FREE – 2023 Town Hall: Exploring Possibilities
ONLINEAs we approach the end of the year, we invite you to a town hall webinar experience to collectively explore personal and professional interests, address common concerns, and ignite a […]
Six Underlying Concepts: Refining the Process
ONLINEAs you work with all parties in the room, these foundational concepts underlie a different approach to conflict and our conflict resolution model. The six underlying concepts of the understanding-based […]
Conflict Coaching: Practices and Principles
ONLINEConflict coaching helps individuals, groups, and organizations manage and resolve conflicts effectively by empowering participants to address and navigate disputes constructively. Join Hansa Patel and Danillo Alves on February 7th, […]
Untying the Knot: Making Sense of Divorce Mediation
ONLINEHave you considered matrimonial mediation's benefits, such as fostering amicable communication, preserving relationships, and reducing the financial burden? What about potential drawbacks? Whether you're a legal professional, a divorcing individual, […]
Creating and Supporting Peer Groups
ONLINEJoin Armine Baltazar and Caitlin Meredith on Monday April 22, 2024 to explore strategies for forming robust peer groups, delve into best practices to boost engagement, and uncover tips for […]
Getting Started: Building an ADR Practice
OnlineEmbarking on a career transition bringing together parties in conflict can be a formidable journey, often fraught with uncertainties and questions. Whether you're contemplating a switch due to dissatisfaction, seeking […]
Conflict Coaching: Unlocking Solutions Through ADR
ONLINEConflicts are a common occurrence in any workplace or personal environment. Addressing them is crucial for maintaining positive relationships and nurturing a healthy organizational culture. The Conflict Coaching method equips […]
The Power of Looping in Conflict Resolution
In understanding-based conflict resolution and mediation, "looping" is a crucial communication technique. By actively demonstrating comprehension, participants bring clarity and understanding into the conversation. Often, people need to feel understood […]
The Driving Force: Unpacking Motivations
ONLINEA fundamental premise of effective understanding-based mediation is the necessity of motivation. Since mediation is a voluntary process, its success hinges on the willingness and drive of both parties to […]
Effective Mediation in Small Claims Court
ONLINEJoin Antoinette Delruelle and Michelle Minovi on September 19, 2024 to learn about the nuances of small claims court mediation using the understanding-based approach. This session will cover essential best […]
Constructive Conversations: Understanding-Based Workplace Applications
ONLINEUnresolved conflicts in the workplace can lead to disengaged employees, reduced productivity, and other negative impacts stemming from interpersonal tensions. In this webinar, join Catherine Conner and Pat Lau on […]
FREE – Planning for Impact
ONLINEAs we approach the end of the year, we invite you to collectively explore personal and professional interests, address common concerns, and ignite a passion for applying understanding-based practices. Join […]
FREE – 4 Steps for Anti-racist, Anti-oppressive Conflict Resolution
ONLINEJoin Hansa Patel and Melanie Rowen on December 19, 2024, at 12:00 PM Pacific for an insightful one-hour webinar with Rev. Liên Shutt, LCSW, a Zen Buddhist priest, social worker, […]