Welcome to the Center for Understanding in Conflict

We believe that conflict doesn’t have to divide us. It can be an opportunity to deepen understanding, strengthen relationships, and find meaningful solutions. Our approach is grounded in a simple but powerful belief: the people at the heart of a conflict are best equipped to resolve it, together.

Since 1981, through our understanding-based model, we have supported professionals and community members in working directly with those in conflict. Rather than imposing solutions or avoiding the tension that comes with disagreement, we help people listen deeply, speak honestly, and make informed decisions in collaboration. This approach fosters respect, ownership, and connection while honoring each person’s autonomy.

Whether you are a lawyer, mediator, leader, educator, or someone seeking a better way to engage with conflict, we invite you to explore our trainings, resources, and community. Here, you’ll find a place to grow your skills, reflect deeply, and join an approach that views conflict not as something to control, but as a challenge to meet with courage, clarity, and compassion.

Help Expand Access to Conflict Resolution

Community support makes it possible for CUC to bring understanding-based conflict resolution training, tools, and ongoing learning to people and organizations that might otherwise face barriers to access. Partner with us to reach specific communities, or make a gift that strengthens and sustains our mission to train professionals and community members in the skills and self-awareness needed to bring understanding to conflict-driven conversations.

Whether you are a lawyer, mediator, leader, educator, or someone seeking a better way to engage with conflict, we invite you to explore our trainings, resources, and community.

Here, you’ll find a place to grow your skills, reflect deeply, and join an approach that views conflict not as something to control, but as a challenge to meet with courage, clarity, and compassion.