Lies and the Lying Liars Who Tell Them

Lies and the Lying Liars Who Tell Them

By Gary Friedman and Amanda Ripley Want some truth? The two of us, we lie. We bet that you do, too. While lying is not one of humanity’s more virtuous characteristics, it is part of what makes us human. As journalists and mediators, we are faced with special...
Power: Understanding or Coercion?

Power: Understanding or Coercion?

By Gary Friedman Whether we are a mediator, lawyer, or parties, power is woven into the dynamics of conflict, and coercion is the most common form of power. Coercion hardly brings an end to the biggest problems fueling conflict; however, there is an alternative that...
Four Thousand Weeks: Time Management for Mortals

Four Thousand Weeks: Time Management for Mortals

Book by Oliver Burkeman Review by Jennifer Sullivan One doesn’t so much read Oliver Burkeman’s Four Thousand Weeks: Time Management for Mortals, as experience its clarifying power. While booksellers may shelve it alongside the self-help books intended to teach mere...
Media Review » Summer of Soul

Media Review » Summer of Soul

Review by Laurie Phuong Ertley Summer of Soul (Searchlight pictures, 2021) is a riveting documentary about Black joy, Black power, and Black music.  You might wonder how something so massive as a music festival headlined by the likes of BB King, Stevie Wonder, and...

Meet Our Interns!

We have five fabulous members of our team who will be working on a variety of projects with the Center for Understanding in Conflict from January to April 2022. Meah GilliamVideo Production Based in Aurora, Colorado Hello everyone! My name is Meah Gilliam and I’ll be...
Top Tips for Starting an ADR Practice

Top Tips for Starting an ADR Practice

By Catherine Conner and Melanie Rowen You may have left your Alternative Dispute Resolution (ADR) trainings motivated to add Consensual Dispute Resolution (CDR) to your mix of work—or perhaps even inspired to start your own ADR/CDR practice—but not sure where to begin...
Neutrality and Objectivity

Neutrality and Objectivity

By Gary Friedman and Katherine Miller There is no such thing as objectivity, and it is impossible to relate to another human being without the filter of our own subjective experiences. When working with people in conflict, what if we lean into this truth instead of...
Inside Out: The Relationship between Inner and Outer

Inside Out: The Relationship between Inner and Outer

By Gary Friedman As human beings, our experiences shape how we understand not only our own contexts, but those of the people we engage with. Accessing self is an oft ignored central skill in conflict resolution, one that expands our repertoire of how to help people we...